The Romance of Dance

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I love this essay by Romance Novelist, Hannah Fielding. Here she is writing about her book: “Burning Embers” on…

The Romance of Dance

by Hannah Fieldingon September 10th, 2012 at 12:45 pm

“I love dance. I love ballet and flamenco and folk dancing. As a young girl I dreamed of being a ballerina; now I am content to watch and be swept away by the beauty of a dance.

For me, dance in all its forms is wonderfully romantic, because it is an expression of emotion. Take this extract from my book Burning Embers:

The overture was dramatic, evoking the crack of thunder and torrential rain; stage lighting gradually turned from red to gold, conjuring the breaking of daylight. Two sculptural figures became outlined against flashes of lightning: a man and a woman, naked except for a most exiguous loincloth, like the…

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Get Off Your Seat and On Your Feet!!

Well Folks, here’s another great reason to push yourself away from the TV and take a social dance lesson!

Not only will you be learning a great skill that you can use for the rest of your life, but you will be building a “true romance” with your partner.

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Believing in TV romances can hurt your real-life relationships

People who invest heavily in TV romances are less likely to be satisfied with their real-life partners, a new study has suggested

A study of 392 married individuals by psychologist Jeremy Osborn from Albion College in Michigan, showed that the more people believe in unrealistic portrayals of romance on TV, the less likely they were to be committed to real-life partners.

The couples were questioned on their relationship, including their feelings of satisfaction, expectations and commitment, as well as how much they watched and invested in soap opera and sitcom relationships.

Those with a higher ‘belief’ in TV romances were more likely to be drawn to alternatives than their current partner – including a preference for being single.

Those with a higher investment also felt their real relationships ‘cost’ them more in personal freedom and time alone, and also made them more aware of their partner’s flaws.

“In this study I found that people who believe the unrealistic portrayals on TV are actually less committed to their spouses and think their alternatives to their spouse are relatively attractive,” the Daily Mail quoted Osborn as saying.

“My hope would be that people would read this article and take a look at their own relationships and the relationships of those around them.

“How realistic are your expectations for your partner and where did those expectations come from?” Osborn said.

However, on the flip side, those people also reported the same levels of satisfaction.

“People with higher belief in television portrayals might see their relationships as more costly than their lower belief counterparts do, but because they also expected higher costs they are no less satisfied,” Osborn said.

“We live in a society that perpetually immerses itself in media images from both TV and the web, but most people have no sense of the ways those images are impacting them,” Osborn added.

http://www.mid-day.com/relationships/2012/sep/210912-sex-and-relationships-Believing-in-TV-romances-can-hurt-your-real-life-relationships.htm

The Romance of Dance

I love this essay by Romance Novelist, Hannah Fielding. Here she is writing about her book: “Burning Embers” on…

The Romance of Dance

by Hannah Fieldingon September 10th, 2012 at 12:45 pm

“I love dance. I love ballet and flamenco and folk dancing. As a young girl I dreamed of being a ballerina; now I am content to watch and be swept away by the beauty of a dance.

For me, dance in all its forms is wonderfully romantic, because it is an expression of emotion. Take this extract from my book Burning Embers:

The overture was dramatic, evoking the crack of thunder and torrential rain; stage lighting gradually turned from red to gold, conjuring the breaking of daylight. Two sculptural figures became outlined against flashes of lightning: a man and a woman, naked except for a most exiguous loincloth, like the first humans at the dawn of time — alive but not yet awake.

The music built to a crescendo together with the humming of the chorus, and the dance opened. As the sun began to rise, the man reached out to the woman, and they clasped hands. He cradled her, and languidly they lifted themselves up to their feet, their bodies brushing, their eyes lost in each other’s. Sensuously, deliberately, they danced, moving as though they were one, their body language smooth as their limbs carefully unfolded. They twirled and rocked, intertwined and separated, nearly leaning onto one another but barely touching, their movements sometimes tender, sometimes almost violent. The man’s erotic movements against his partner were at first tentatively inviting, then inciting, before becoming more and more demanding and forceful. The woman was hesitant and shy to start off with, then increasingly yielding as his caresses seemed to excite her. As she watched, Coral felt contrasting emotions ignite in her as the furious energy of the dance alternated with sudden scenes of silence.

Finally, clasped together, making full contact for the first time, the couple swayed and spun around the stage in a flowing wave motion to the provocative rhythm of the music. As the frenzy reached its paroxysm, the orchestra’s fury intensified and stopped. Moments passed while the dancers held tight to each other, as though their bodies were melting together. The expression on their features as they lifted their faces to the sky was one of unimaginable joy. The show had come to an end. The dancers, still panting, their bodies glistening with sweat, took their final bow from an audience who were stamping, shouting, and throwing flowers at them in appreciation of such masterful art.

[In “Burning Embers”] Rafe has taken Coral to see this passionate, sensual dance on a date, and it has the desired effect: by the end of the evening they have shared their first kiss.

There is something special about dance that transports us into another world: the language of the body is powerful, transformative. I wonder whether more young women than young men dance because more young women than young men are openly romantic? I think of the film Billy Elliot, about a young man’s journey to become a ballet dancer, and the opposition he faces, and I think the problem for him is largely that dance is seem as a feminine medium of expression for the very reason that it is emotion, romance, incarnate.

In the books I write, I like to create cultured heroes and heroines, and I shape male protagonists who are appreciative of dance. Rafe in Burning Embers runs a nightclub and is involved with a dancer there, so affected is he by the art form. And while Coral struggles with her jealously of Rafe’s dancer, she cannot help but be stirred by the wonderful dance show she sees on her date with Rafe. I love people who love dance. I love people who are unafraid to dance like nobody is watching. And so I love to create character with similar joie de vivre.

For dancing is just that: joy. Lord Byron said, ‘On with the dance! Let joy be unconfined’, and Frederick Nietzsche ‘would believe only in a God that knows how to Dance’. But Havelock Ellis has the final word: ‘Dancing is the loftiest, the most moving, the most beautiful of the arts, because it is no mere translation or abstraction from life; it is life itself.’ Life is for loving, and life is for dancing; thus the two are inextricably intertwined.”

http://www.hannahfielding.net

My Favorite Dance Movies

Hello Dancers,

Here are some of my all time favorite dance movies…I know I have more, but here’s a start…Enjoy!

Dirty Dancing

Flashdance

White Nights

Perfect

Saturday Night Fever

Blue Skies

Pulp Fiction

High Fidelity

Clerks 2

American Pie

Billy Elliot

Footloose

True Lies

Grease

Honey

Phantom of theOpera

Step up

Step up 2

Moonwalker

West Side Story

Moulin Rouge

Mary Poppins

7 Brides for 7 Brothers

Rocky Horror Picture Show

Strictly Ballroom

Happy Feet

Singing in the Rain

Fame

Fame2009

Save the Last Dance

Mamma Mia

Mask of Zorro

Coyote Ugly

Wild Hogs

Get Smart

Airplane

A Knights Tale

High School Musical

Austin Powers